In 1990, my childhood friend, Diane and her family came to visit us in Illinois from Hawaii. She brought her husband, Dave (that amazing photographer who does our family photos) and children, Brandon and Kristen. Brandon was a marvel. He talked a mile a minute and wanted to learn and know everything. There was a constant barrage of questions. Everything around him was a curiosity. He would spend nights sitting on his father's lap in our backyard staring at fire flies. He was interested in everything. Squirrels... chipmunks... whatever...
We were surprised when we arrived in Hawaii a few years ago that he still had an Illinois cicada wing because he was so fascinated by the jeweled colors on one of nature's precious creatures.

When Brandon learned that we were renovating my mother's house in 2006 to move back to Hawaii, he insisted that he wanted to help. He actually took time from his busy studies to come and help Art tile the bathroom floor.

And then... he came back again on another day to help Art dig up a very stubborn bush that Art wanted to transplant to another location. Art wanted to save the bush because the plumbers were going to dig a line to the house.
Brandon nearly wilted from digging in the HOT sun for several long, tedious hours. He really is as tenacious as Art (and that bush). When he says he's going to do something, he's going to follow through no matter how hard it is. The tree was planted in its new location, but died in the weeks ahead. Alas!
We attended Brandon's Convocation ceremony yesterday. He has finished his internship and will now be doing his residency. He is now Dr. Brandon! As if that wasn't enough he was also given two special awards. On top of being in the Honor Medical Society, he received the Maurice Brodsky Memorial Award for excellence in pulmonary medicine and the one I thought he should be most proud of because the recipient of this award was chosen by class vote. It was the Po'okela No'eau Award to recognize the student with characteristics which best exemplify the qualities of the ideal physician!
I was looking at him up on the stage and remembering that little boy who was wondering how fire flies could light up the night.
When I gave him his lei of congratulations I was bursting with pride. Diane and Dave don't like to brag about their son, but I know how ecstatic they were and I'll have to do the bragging for them.

Brandon's wife and daughter were there to add their smiles of joy to the day.
Soon the leis were threatening to pile up and cover his face. Brandon is loved by everybody because he cares about everybody. If I have a medical question about anything, he's always willing to tell me what he's learned. I LOVE it! I just hope he'll set up his practice in Hawaii. I'll bet he'd accept Medicare patients.
Diane and Dave invited us to a family luncheon at Wah Kung Restaurant. I have to tell you the food was amazing. I ate way too much. Notice I ate first and took the photo after. These were only the first few dishes that arrived. At one point during the meal, Brandon leaned over and asked, "Auntie Kay, how long do you think you can keep posting everyday?"
You see? He still hasn't stopped asking questions. I just love this kid. That's Dr. Kid, mind you!
What a wonderful and intelligent young man Brandon is! I can understand that you are all proud of him! Very nice post, Kay!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your visit, Kay. The answer to your question about the name of the bridge is now added to my post. It is:"A common myth states that it was the students who named this bridge "bridge of sighs," as the context of its existing within the college grounds means that the "sighs" are those of pre-exam students."
I added this to my post. The Italian name has the same meaning but I don't what they had to sigh about.;) See you! Love Wil.
What an amazing guy. The pile of leis around his neck are proof that Brandon is loved and respected by many. He'll surely be a terrific doctor.
ReplyDeleteYour pride in Brandon is well deserved and it shows throughout your post, Kay. Congratulations to this exceptional young man.
ReplyDeletegood to know there are ambitious youth out training to become our leaders and doctors...
ReplyDeleteJust to be reminded that some people follow their dreams right to the end, that was so wonderful. And he does look like a truly great guy. Congratulations to Brandon and to his entire family! Wish I could meet him. Wait, I did, thanks to your blog. I hope you continue to write forever.
ReplyDeleteHi Kay!
ReplyDeleteI ate too much today, too.
oh, I don't have to eat too much because the more I eat the more difficult my baby comes out!
I hope my baby doesn't become too big!
by the way can I ask you something? " Auntie Kay " must be " Kay-obasan " in Japanese.
can I use it when I call an elder lady next door?
What a wonderful post and tribute to an extraordinary young man!! That's just the kind of doctor we need more of these days! Have a great day!
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CONGRATULATIONS, DR. BRANDON!!! It isn't only brains that make a good doctor, but his compassion also. It seems Brandon has both.
ReplyDeleteI love this. You must be so proud of Dr. Brandon. He seems like the greatest kind of person to be a doctor. He is curious, he tenacious, he is kind, he is helpful, he is bright, he has great people skills, and he cares.
ReplyDeleteI am sure he will have a wonderful career and help many. Congratulations to him, his family and he friends...
What a lovely young man!!! And from what you've said here, he'll be the kind of doctor that everyone loves!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful story, Kay! I love to hear that sort of thing. The award from his peers is definitely the best, because it shows what kind of doctor he will be — and I'm sure he'll accept Art as a patient. After all, if it weren't for Art, he wouldn't be have those other trades to fall back on!
ReplyDeleteKeep on boasting about him. I'm sure we'd all love to know how "Dr. Kid" is doing. LOL
— K
Kay, Alberta, Canada
An Unfittie's Guide to Adventurous Travel
What a neat Dr. Kid and how smart of you to home grow your own doctor. One who will actually call you back.
ReplyDeleteBe proud.
Congratulations to Brandon on becoming a Dr. I love when kids ask questions!!
ReplyDeleteAya: Yes, of course you can call your neighbor "Obasan." I thought they actually already did that in Japan. Or even "Obaasan" for a grandmotherly woman? Granted my mother would not like to be called "Obaasan" because she doesn't think of herself as old.
ReplyDelete:-) I'd stick with "Obasan."
In Hawaii we often refer to an older friend as Auntie or Uncle. I guess that must have been strange for people in Illinois, but we brought that custom over and our children always called our friends "Uncle and Auntie."
I've known Brandon and his siblings, Kristen and Jeff since they were babies. I've known Diane since Kindergarten. My children also calls Brandon's parents Uncle Dave and Auntie Diane.
This is one Hawaiian custom I really LOVE because it's so loving and inclusive. As everybody knows, I'm all for inclusion into the big Ohana (Hawaiian for Family).
Perfect! I love your blog! And congrats to Brandon. We certainly need pulmonary specialists these days with all the air pollution and allergies.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Dr. Brandon.I love his smiling face covered with leis .We too have a similar tradition of congratulating our loved ones with malas (something similar to your leis).I wish him a bright future ahead.Thanks for introducing him to us .
ReplyDeleteYAY for Dr. Kid!!!! He sounds delightful!!
ReplyDeleteIt's so nice that you have friends from your childhood. It's comforting to keep in touch throughout the years and watch their kids grow up. I have a best friend, Marilyn and we've talked on the phone almost every day for 50 years. Congratulations to the young Doctor Brandon.
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Yea, you need drive to finish up a doctorate. And brains.
ReplyDeletewonderful story and wonderful young man, Kay. This blog is becoming your 'memoir'.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post about a wonderful young man. Congratulations to Brandon. He is going to be the kind of doctor that many of us wish we had.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful kid. He's going to make a fantastic doctor.
ReplyDeleteI can hear the pride in the words you use to describe brandon. What a remarkable young man.
ReplyDeleteHooray! A new doctor with compassion! Art taught him how to plaster a cast with the tile work, and how to do exploratory surgery with the tree relocation. I LOVE seeing the casual ceremony. Being a solo doc is scary these days, (malpractice and cost of running an office, replacements for time off,) so he'll probably join a lung group after his residency. Tell him the Old Nurse said to be sure and ask the nurses how his patients did overnight, and if there's anything else the nurses need for his patients....it'll save him repeated phone calls.
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I wonder how Obama Care will work out for the new doctor.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful young man.
ReplyDeleteYour story warms the heart.
ReplyDeleteI love this post. Kay! You have the best memories and share them so well.
ReplyDeleteHi Kay!
ReplyDeleteThank you for explaing it for me!
I was able to understand it well!
How joyful! I'm so glad my kids are semi gainfully employed!
ReplyDeleteSuch a tribute to an outstanding young man. I'm sure that you are proud to know him and that you were an influence along the way.
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