Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Wisdom From My Mother

It's done! Art just finished my office closet and we're so proud of ourselves.  It seemed like such a difficult project when we first started and a learning process but it's been worth it.


Here's Art adding the frame for the closet doors.

The doors were fitted onto the closet front.

Then Art hammered in the moulding.

We really liked the look of the moulding.

I couldn't wait to put my supplies onto all the shelves. I do love to organize.

The last step was to install the door pulls.

I was mentioning to mom at dinner last night about all the work we did for the two closets that nobody would see.  It's taken us almost a month from start to finish with little details we struggled with that even we would not see.

She seemed startled by my thoughts and said, "Does it matter?  If you both did it together and you're proud of it, that is the important thing.  You know how hard you worked.  You can feel satisfied with what you learned and what you accomplished.  This project was something special for yourselves and no one else.  You can look at it everyday and feel good about your hard work.  You did it for yourselves, not for anybody else's praise."  (I don't think I can quite translate her words perfectly but this is the gist of it.)

I suppose you're never too old to still be taught by your mother.

Aside from wisdom, I think I may have caught some of that bug of hers.  I've been feeling very sluggish and will need to crash again tonight.  Very frustrating.  I don't care how bad I get, I refuse to take the same medication as hers.  She's still going and going and going....

And I don't mean the Energizer Bunny although she's beginning to move around everywhere again.

28 comments:

  1. Lovely closet doors! What a sense of accomplishment you and Art have. What's your next project?

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  2. We were just talking about that. There's so many to choose from. I think it might be finishing up some detailing in the diningroom. Then there's three more closets down there. Then there's the tool closet in the garage. Mom's closet floors...more flooring in another bedroom... tiling a bathroom... etc. Arrrghhh!

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  3. Kay, I think you deserve a nice long rest after all that. Don't get too sick. Wish I could bring you chicken soup.
    Greetings to wise mom.

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  4. They look lovely, and you have shared it with people around the world so you were not strictly accurate about no-one but you and Art seeing them. Your mother is a wise woman, though.

    Hope you feel better soon.

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  5. I just bought the makings for chicken soup. I'm planning to make some soon.

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  6. the laughting housewife: LOL That did occur to me when I was posting this story. I wish you were here so I could show you, though. Still... yes, mom is right. We did do it for our pleasure.

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  7. You know what I have enjoyed most about your closet story? The sharing you and Art were doing and the obvious pride you have in your mate. Anymore it is more common to hear folks complain about their spouses rather than rejoice.

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  8. I have felt the same about your writing, Quilly. I love seeing the affection and respect you both always have for each other. It is very precious... it is priceless.

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  9. Looks like Art did a really great job.

    Your Mom is right of course. A wise woman.

    I hope both of you recover quickly.

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  10. I hope you all stay clear of the HiN1 virus or flue.

    The closet is very nice. I like the molding and used it like that when we had the new patio sliding door installed. I am also glad Art has the right tools.

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  11. Another project accomplished with that special Art(istic)touch..as i always say ...both of you amaze me.Your mom is right ,you are lucky to have her by your side.Please get well soon,be healthy and cheerful always.My regards.

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  12. wow, professional closet doors and good advice from your mom. Hope you're not really getting a bug.

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  13. Your cupboard doors look terrific, what a great job you and Art have done. And mothers of course are always right! Look after yourself, sleep and rest is probably the best medicine, along with some TLC and lots of Vitamin C.

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  14. true..as long as u are happy with the end result..nothing else matters..

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  15. That IS a beautiful job! I have to laugh to read you saying nobody will ever see (except all of us and the blogosphere LOL!!)

    I hope your mother keeps improving and that the fatigue doesn't hit you too hard. Maybe all the 'going' helps get the bug out of the system?

    Oh well--have fun with all the home improvements you keep doing too!

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  16. Great looking closet doors. Now if you could only come to my house and organize my closet! If I say please!!!!!
    Glad your Mom is feeling better and her wise words are lessions for us all.Thank you for sharing her with us!
    You share part of your life here with us, so really we gott to see the closet(from afar) and I think it's great!

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  17. wow look at all the comments from around the world-you have quite a fan base for your blog-so many are appreciating what you are doing and your mom is right it's for your own enjoyment and learning. get well soon. I'm fighting a cold too and winning.

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  18. You and Art do beautiful work together.
    Mom is right, of course, but just in case you needed a little more appreciation for a job well done, you always have your blog family.

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  19. i always admire 'handy work' it's amazing to build and create something with your hands, the end result to last a ... very... long time! :) but your mom is right, the pride of achievement will always be with you! and look! you shared your pride with us! :) haha

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  20. Mom is wise....I hope you don't get really ill and feel better soon.. This time of year brings so many bugs..

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  21. What a cool-looking closet! I'm sure you feel much more efficient now. If you lived closer, I'd be trying to hire Art. Ha!
    Feel better soon!

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  22. Wow, the closet looks great and how I wish I had a few of them in my house! Your mother's words were right, as long as you and Art are happy with the project, get satisfaction from a job well-done then that is all that matters. I admire you and Art for all the projects you tackle together. I do hope your mother is feeling much better and that you are too.

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  23. Beautiful finish work in that closet, Kay. You and Art are perfectionists, and it shows.

    And your mother's words are so true, aren't they?

    I'm glad to hear she's feeling better but sorry to hear you're feeling worse. Get well.

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  24. What words of wisdom from your Mom! You and Art should be so proud of each other!!

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  25. Glad Mom is feeling better. sjhe sounds like a gem. You take care of yourself now, Kay.


    Aloha, Neighbor


    Comfort Spiral

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  26. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, everybody. Sigh.... What a great feeling!

    Bobbie: He really did do a great job. It looked so complicated when he started out so it feels wonderful to look at it now.

    Abraham Lincoln: The right tools do make all the difference. I'm just really tired. I don't know what it is.

    Kavita: It really is great having my mom with us. I love not worrying about dinner. She's taken over the cooking again so she must be doing OK.

    Bhavesh Chhatbar: Thanks for your visit Bhavesh. Art will be very complimented.

    Christine: I don't know what this is. I actually didn't go to my line dancing because I thought I was too tired, but now I'm regretting it.

    Amanda: I keep feeling like I'm extra tired, on the brink of a headache, on the brink of a fever and then I'm OK. I don't know what's going on.

    Wenn: So true.

    Susan: I can't figure out what's going on with me. My mom is getting better now but I'm on the brink of something.

    More chicken soup?

    Peggy: I LOVE my closet. Art can't figure out how it can be filling up already with "Stuff."

    Lin: It really is the most wonderful thing to be able to exchange ideas with friends around the world. It's great to see things from another perspective and find that really, we all have so much in common.

    Betty: She really is quite wise. She's experienced so much misery in life and come out of it with understanding.

    Linda: Thanks, Linda. Isn't it the most wonderful, happy thing to have our blog family?

    Kay: Thank you very much for your kind words. It's such a lovely feeling to share our happiness.

    Janie: Thanks so much, Janie. It really is a wonderful feeling. Art's already contemplating the next project.

    Cheryl: Thanks, Cheryl. It really is a lovely feeling of accomplishment. I keep opening and closing the doors and looking in and rearranging everything.

    Jean: Thank you, thank you. We feel great about the project being done. I do need to get some rest.

    Sherri: Thanks, Sherri! We really are quite proud of ourselves. I must say. :-)

    Cloudia: You're right. She's a lot of fun.

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  27. Looks awesome. Always nice, remodel stuff as you know.

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