Tuesday was a day full of UPs and DOWNs. But the DOWNS were a lot more serious and upsetting.
Art and I were out shopping hoping but unsuccessful to find something to send our grandsons at Ross and then at Lowes to pick up some wires. Our next stop was to be the Navy Exchange and Commissary.On the way there, the manager at Mom's day care called to say she'd fallen and torn the skin on her arm and banged her knee. She sent me photos of her bandaged arm and abrasion on her knee and told me we didn't need to come and take mom home immediately.
That was a relief. Apparently mom had tripped on her cane during their exercise walk in the building. Sigh...
We continued on to the Navy Exchange and happily found Hawaiian t-shirts for the grandsons. 😄 Then when we were at the check-out I happened to look out toward the exit and saw a large cellphone. It was rather surprising that someone could drop something that large and not notice. I picked it up and showed it to the cashier who said it was probably from her previous customer. We turned it in to the attendant.Art however, who is a lot more observant than me said he did see (from a distance) an elderly couple who'd been there before us. He just knew the woman had silvery white hair and was Caucasian.
As we left the Navy Exchange and got on the escalator to go down to the commissary, Art saw the silver haired woman. We went up to them and Art told them what happened. The fellow checked his belt pocket and was in shock that the cellphone wasn't there. He was totally disoriented. Art explained where he needed to go to retrieve it. His wife stopped, turned with a huge smile and gratefully thanked us for finding them and letting them know. It really made our day. Or so we thought...
But there was more to come.
Art was checking his email and discovered he'd gotten two emails saying purchases had been made on his Amazon account that he hadn't made. When I checked his Amazon account on my iPad, it did NOT show those purchases. And then the Amazon website made me change his password to access his account.And then... what the heck, my iPad went crazy saying over and over with a rolling icon that it had to reboot the Amazon app.
And then... Art checked his credit card that was attached to his Amazon account and discovered purchases recorded and pending! Yikes! He called the credit card company immediately and they said it was caught just in time. They could see that there was one purchase made prior that was obviously "phishing" followed by another order. The credit card company terminated that card and is issuing him another one.
And then (yup... another And then) when I checked MY Amazon account it stated in order to open it they would send a code to my email. I put the code in BUT it said it would send another pass code to my phone also. But what they listed was NOT my phone number. Arrghh! So now my Amazon account is inaccessible.
Anyway, I'm thinking I'll open another account with a different email someday. Someday.
I'm too freaked out right now.
I then went to my Walmart account and removed the credit cards I had stored there. I'm now trying to remember where else I might have credit card information stored because I'm going to remove those also. Aggravation! My daughter told us she does not keep credit card information on any website. Sigh... more things to worry about.
My brother picked mom up at the daycare and brought her home to our house a few hours later.I removed the band aid and discovered that they'd just covered the wound. I hope it wasn't too late. I washed it with a saline solution, unfurled the skin and used wound closures to seal the wound.
And that was Tuesday.
On Wednesday, my doctor wrote to say he didn't like all my repeated blood counts and wants to send me to a nephrologist.
As the famous actress, Bette Davis once said, ""Old age ain't no place for sissies"




It isn't really clear to me the sequence of events but how did Amazon ask you to change the password? It sounds like it asked you after you had already verified that purchases hadn't been made on your iPad which makes me suspect you might have clicked on a link provided in the first two emails saying items had been purchased which leads me to believe that they were phishing emails just looking for account information. Once they gained access to your account, then they could access your credit card.
ReplyDeleteThe emails they send are incredibly sophisticated these days. If I get an email saying something has happened suspiciously from Amazon, PayPal or any other website, I never click anything on those emails. Instead I access the website directly as it appears you did initially. I never trust any link sent to me by email. Never!
Yes. Phishy things come in all of the time. Never click, or at least not first. I hope today is a much better day, okay Kay?
Delete(For Ed) I can’t remember the sequence exactly. I was checking Art’s Amazon account for him and it asked me to changed his password. But then when I tried to get into my own account the following day, it did that thing with sending a code to my email and then to a strange phone number. Sigh….
DeleteOh, dear! It's horrible when you've been hacked and being without your customary credit cards is unsettling.
ReplyDeleteI hope your mother's arm and knee recover - skin can be so fragile. I hope matters improve for you now.
Yikes, Kay! This sounds just awful. I am glad you got Mom's arm fixed in time, but this whole day sounds awful! I use PayPal for most purchases because it seems safer. My heart goes out to you for all your tribulations, dear Kay.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your Mom. I'm with your daughter-I never cache any credit card information on apps.
ReplyDeleteI've had emails saying thanks for your recent purchase from places I've never heard of. I go check my acct to see if there is a charge on my card. Then I send that email to spam and report it. Phishing is so crazy these days.
ReplyDeleteAnd...I am quite a sissy. Pooh, when it rains it pours.
ReplyDeleteIt sure does happen that way sometimes. Could you give me a name next time? Any name will do so I can sort of associate you with somebody. :-)
DeleteGood grief, what a day! It was one thing after another. I get so frustrated and angry with these scammers.
ReplyDeleteNever believe emails or notifications saying a purchase or delivery is pending or that a purchase has been made on your card. Never click on any of those notifications. If you feel something really is wrong, go directly to the website of the account in question. These criminals are just waiting for you to take their bait. I clicked on a Facebook post the other day and got a huge sign saying my account had been hacked and it was important for me to click here to fix it. I just shut down my phone and went about my other business. All was fine in awhile when I turned it back on. The crooks really want you to panic. They count on you panicking. So, don't panic and shut every thing down and start all over again in a little bit.
ReplyDeleteFortunate and unfortunate events as you say.
ReplyDeleteWhat a day! I'm not techno, but I wonder if the elderly couple's large phone picked up stuff from your and Art's phone. Excellent wound care provided! Nice work. Linda in Kansas
ReplyDeleteThank you, Linda. It was an ER nurse who actually taught me what to do for skin tears several years ago. But since mom is now indoors and is not outdoors without one of us with her, we haven't had a skin tear in a long time. I really didn't expect this to happen at the day care.
DeleteWow! Kay, what a day or days! Enough to up your BP and make you anxious or freaked out. But sounds like it all worked out in the end. Sorry you had to go through that.
ReplyDeleteHope your Mom is healing now and all those credit card worries are behind you. And if the doctor is concerned about your blood counts, it is good to have it checked out further. Old age is indeed not for sissies.
ReplyDeleteWhat a day! Sometimes I have such a busy terrible day and so many problems pop up, I can barely keep up. But then I remember the wise words of my 104 year old (now deceased) artist friend who would say, "This, too, shall pass." And indeed it does. Sometimes it takes longer than others, but it does. Hang in there, dear Kay!
ReplyDeleteThere are so many scams and false alerts that it's impossible to know if something is real. Sounds like this one was.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you were able to get your mom fixed up.
Too much stress!
I was almost hit with an Amazon scam but Amazon had blocked it themselves
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about that situation. I would totally panic! I think you definitely need to contact Amazon. I think I have a number. I'll send it to you. Your post looks very familiar to me with the scrapes and the cuts. My husband is in care in a care home in Foster village so I'm out there everyday. Is just overwhelming to deal with these end-of-life issues, but we try to keep a good spirit especially around other people and make the most of the panic and the beauty of the whole thing. So sorry that happened to you. That freaks me out too
ReplyDeleteHi Cloudia, Thank you for thinking of me as you deal with your own difficult times right now. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. I've already closed that Amazon account. And I'm thinking about closing Art's account too. Sigh... My daughter works in finance and she says there are more worrisome scams being created everyday.
DeleteI have been thinking, and DrumMajor brought up a possibility. Could it have been that the elderly couple's "phone" hacked into your phone and info as well as your credit card? It is a good thing you handled the scam situation. My friends all warn me about buying from Temu.com but I tell them the stories about Temu scams come from Amazon because it is so much cheaper. Well, it IS a possibility, or probably not.
ReplyDeleteNo, I really doubt that elderly couple could have hacked into our phone. They didn't appear to be capable of anything like that. They were very disoriented, especially the older fellow. I know I need to be a lot more cautious and take my credit card off of websites. Even the Star Advertiser, now that I think about it.
DeleteArt has keen observation skills! We were walking through a parking lot and I found a set of keys on a lanyard dropped on the ground. It was a Ford key, so Tim pointed it at the nearest Ford and clicked it. The lights blinked. We were able to turn they keys into customer service with a make, model and license plate number.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a mess, Kay! I would feel overwhelmed. I hope your mom's injuries heal quickly and well. And the amazon situation is a nightmare! :( Hope your tests improve, kidneys, I presume?
ReplyDeleteKay of Musings: I had to look up nephrology. I haven’t had the call yet. I am rather nervous about it though. After 4 days, it’s amazing how beautifully she is healing. I don’t heal that fast.
Deleteooooooh boy, what an ordeal with amazon....it's all so sad the scams people pull. i read above your mom is healing well, such good news!!
ReplyDeleteThis post of yours made me really nervous about the places that have my credit cards recorded. I do use PayPal a lot but there are some like Amazon which has the credit card. Take care of yourselves!
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