Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Oh Brother!

My deadline is rapidly approaching to get my mom and her family's chronicle printed. My Canon color printer is beginning to act up. It's about 10 years old and still does a good job when it's working. I'm going to print the pages and then copy them at Kinko's or what used to be Kinko's(for the aunts and uncle).

My daughter-in-law-in-spirit who used to be a journalist-editor up until a few months ago is now doing the story editing for me. She is an exceptional writer so I'm really grateful that she's willing to do this despite her heavy schedule now as a government director.

My daughter has already done the first proof of the photo album text and my brother and sister-in-law are doing the 2nd proof. My brother is so meticulous(about the photos) that it's making me laugh if not driving me crazy.

It reminds me of my childhood. Our relationship hasn't changed after all these years. Art says he heard me talking to Dennis on the phone and that I was being very bossy telling him to hurry up with the title page/book cover artwork already. ...and hurry up with the editing of the photo album so I can start printing. Dennis however, is determined that the photos are the best they can be and I'm at the point of being more quick and dirty because of the time factor. So I may be bossy but who gets his way all the time? I'm grumping at him and he just chuckles and says, "Nope. You have to do that one over."
"I did it already," I argue.
"No, I don't think you did."
"I did, I did," I'm not really raising my voice. Never mind that Art heard me.
"Nope, don't think so." I can almost see him smiling.

And that's how it was when we were kids. I could gripe at him forever but if he had his mind made up to do something one way he would do it that way no matter what I said. I could call him stubborn but somebody else would call it determined. He is also the most forgiving and loyal person around which is a good thing since sometimes I am a teeny tiny bit bossy.

So after all my grumping at him, a half hour later he sends me THE most INCREDIBLE book cover overflowing with detail and symbolism! Totally blew me away. Of course this means he's been thinking about this cover for a long time because there's no way anybody could have come up with something like this in such a short time. Oh brother! He really is something!

15 comments:

  1. sounds like you have an exceptionally close relationship with your brother. Good for you! My brother and I were never that close growing up, but when he started writing to me from prison in Oklahoma, our love grew. I was very sad when he died of hepatitis just 6 months after his release.

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  2. OMG Kay, you and Dennis sound just like me and my husband! ROFL

    Congratulations on the splendid cover, and good luck with all the work that's left! I'll bet it turns out amazing by the time you leave for Japan--I love the way one generation lived the story, and the next generations are coming together so beautifully to *tell* it. THAT's a wonderful story in itself!

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  3. What a wonderful relationship you have with your brother, Kay. And to think you're This Close to having the family history printed and bound and given to family members. You must be so excited, and you should be extremely proud that you took the time to do this for posterity.

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  4. how sweet to have so much help and support. are you printing it in color? that's always nicer but more expensive. what a marvelous project you have done.

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  5. It sounds as if you have a wonderful relationship with your brother, no matter what happens! You along with your brother have created a wonderful gift for your entire family. Thats what family is all about! And the photo is precious!!

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  6. What fun! You are building family memories and strengthening personal ties. What could be better than family?

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  7. I'm repeating myself but what can we say except "What a family!!"

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  8. Kay have you considered the self publishing route? This document sounds special. Maybe you could publish and market it one day. You and your brother are so close.

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  9. You and your brother were (and still are) soooooooo cute!!!!

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  10. I am sure it will all be worth the effort in the end and everyone will be happy with the results. It is a big undertaking.

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  11. Your brother is great! I have only two sisters, one of them is also my friend!
    Good luck with your book!

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  12. Kay this story of you and your brother is so cute as is the photo of the two of you when you were children. Lovely post!

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  13. What a wonderful relationship you and your brother, Dennis have! I love the picture!

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  14. Seems like you and your brother have a very understanding relationship, I never had a brother, just sisters to argue with. Good luck on your project and have a nice weekend.

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  15. Dennis is wonderful. You're relationship sounds sounds like a normal loving relationship. The quiet ones seem to be the stubborn ones, enter my husband! :)

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