Monday, December 19, 2016

Holiday Kindness

I go walking at the mall on most Wednesdays before the shoppers come. There are a lot of seniors who do the same thing and we sometimes bump into friends. Although Art prefers walking outside, I like walking in the air conditioned mall, avoiding the hot sun. I know, I know. I'm a wuss.

For several months, I'd noticed a woman who was always there walking on her own but going clockwise. I'd say 95% of the walkers go counter clockwise. I don't know why; that's just the way it is. I would therefore bump into her every time we made a lap and smile, laugh, nod or joke with her. Eventually, I introduced myself and learned her name was Mary.


Last week, Mary stopped me as I was walking with my friend, Diane and said she wanted to give me a present. She had bracelets she'd made and let me choose which one I wanted. She noticed Diane then and told her to choose too. Diane declined the kind offer at first but was encouraged to select one which she happily did.

Isn't it beautiful? I can still hardly believe it.

Diane took a photo of us together. I told Diane I wouldn't use the photo for my blog, but she suggested I use it, but blur out Mary's face like I usually do. Great idea. When I showed my daughter the photo she said, "You're both matching, mom. People are so nice in Hawaii."


It's true that I meet nice people everywhere I go in Hawaii, but Mary is extra nice.

25 comments:

  1. That bracelet is beautiful and I bet your friend is too if you hadn't blurred her face:-)

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  2. The bracelet, the story and you are beautiful.I hope the relationship grows into a nice friendship. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas, full peace, love, hope and good times shared by all.

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    1. It's so very nice to meet you Wenda! Thank you for your visit and very kind comment. You made my day!

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  3. The kindness of strangers who then become friends. How nice at this time of year. Merry Christmas.

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  4. How sweet! I think you attract people, Kay, with your ever-present smile. Love that bracelet. :-)

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  5. Yes. Hawaii people are what I really miss here in Cali. We have palm trees and sun, albeit it's winter and not a balmy 72 like Hono. " I like walking in the air conditioned mall, avoiding the hot sun." Yeah, on the other hand: I too avoided the sun for 30 years there, LOL! Love following your adventures, and seeing/hearing about Art & Mom and ohana too!

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  6. Pretty bracelet, such a nice gesture.

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  7. I wish I had a mall close by for winter walking. The last few weeks have been either very cold or very snowy and icy or both.

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  8. Pretty bracelet and what a nice friend.

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  9. A lovely gift and new friend too.

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  10. Right now we need lots more nice people. So glad you have found one. The bracelet is lovely, and her kindness in sharing even more lovely.

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  11. So who said walking doesn't pay off. It sticks with your "nice " theme . Hawiians( I don't think I spelled this right) are nice.

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  12. How nice, indeed! I have noticed, when I go to Vegas, California, and Seattle, that people are so wary of others. Maybe it is because they have to be in case of danger. It is like everyone is wearing a shell or shield, and it is very difficult to connect with them until much effort or some trust is made.
    In Hawaii, we don't have shells or shields on. It might be the air, but it sure is nice.

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  13. Nice people attract nice people like a magnet.

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  14. How lovely. Hawaii mo bettah! I always miss the smiles and unconditional kindness when I'm away.

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  15. We don't have a mall here so I Walmart shot as do others. You are so right about the direction people generally walk. I am a clockwise sort. That is a lovely bracelet and how thoughtful of her to make it for you. Hum, now I am wondering if I need to get some gifts for my regulars:)

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  16. So nice to receive a gift from a friend. Here's to a wonderful Christmas weekend for you and yours.

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  17. What a beautiful bracelet, I love it! Your new friend, you could sell make up together...MARY KAY! HA!
    Happy that you showed us this lovely gift. x

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  18. There really are a lot of good people around us. We just seldom get a chance to meet them and get to know them. We have encountered lots of friendly folks at soccer matches.
    The bracelet is beautiful and they way you received it makes it a treasure.

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