I posted last week about the genealogy Mom and I worked on for Art's Auntie G. Needless to say, Auntie G was beyond thrilled, beyond satisfied, beyond happy. She said she'd held that piece of paper for 12 years and tried unsuccessfully to find someone who might be able to decipher it for her.
A couple of years ago, mom and I worked on Art's mom's family history and presented it to all of that side of the family. That one took us months and months of work because there was so much documentation Uncle F had found. Uncle F is Auntie G's husband. We gave albums of photos and DVDs of all we had translated and discovered to each of the cousins.
Therefore Auntie G knew mom and I could do this. However, she was hesitant to trouble us with more daunting work. I confess I was initially exhausted just looking at that sheet of paper too.
Now that Auntie G is getting older, I believe she just needed to have this done for her children so she asked Art to approach us.
We brought the completed work over to her house and I was able to show her all the connections she had through her mother. Auntie G says she will now be able to clearly explain to her children and grandchildren who she's been talking about all their lives.
As we were leaving her house after explaining everything, she handed us a card that she said merely expressed her thanks and nothing more. When we returned home, we found a beautiful letter of heartfelt appreciation and a generous gift. Too generous! Art called her immediately to say it was unnecessary, but she insisted vehemently that we spend it. She wanted to especially thank mom. So we did.
I bought a whole bunch of face lotion, etc. that mom had been needing and then took mom out for a celebration lunch at Gyotaku, her favorite restaurant. Mom had said before that she was happy to do it, and didn't need any compensation, but she had to admit this was sure fun.
And it was.
A couple of years ago, mom and I worked on Art's mom's family history and presented it to all of that side of the family. That one took us months and months of work because there was so much documentation Uncle F had found. Uncle F is Auntie G's husband. We gave albums of photos and DVDs of all we had translated and discovered to each of the cousins.
Therefore Auntie G knew mom and I could do this. However, she was hesitant to trouble us with more daunting work. I confess I was initially exhausted just looking at that sheet of paper too.
Now that Auntie G is getting older, I believe she just needed to have this done for her children so she asked Art to approach us.
We brought the completed work over to her house and I was able to show her all the connections she had through her mother. Auntie G says she will now be able to clearly explain to her children and grandchildren who she's been talking about all their lives.
As we were leaving her house after explaining everything, she handed us a card that she said merely expressed her thanks and nothing more. When we returned home, we found a beautiful letter of heartfelt appreciation and a generous gift. Too generous! Art called her immediately to say it was unnecessary, but she insisted vehemently that we spend it. She wanted to especially thank mom. So we did.
I bought a whole bunch of face lotion, etc. that mom had been needing and then took mom out for a celebration lunch at Gyotaku, her favorite restaurant. Mom had said before that she was happy to do it, and didn't need any compensation, but she had to admit this was sure fun.
And it was.

I am very glad to hear this.
ReplyDeleteSo sweet....I'm sure your mom enjoyed every bite at the restaurant, and you did such a great thing to get these family heritage items for Aunt G. God Bless.
ReplyDeletea great outcome for all!
ReplyDeleteI have never dined at Gyotaku, so perhaps David and I should try it.
ReplyDeleteGlad that everyone is happy and doing so well, Kay.
Very, very cool.
ReplyDeletewell deserved I say!
ReplyDeleteThis is about kindness all around.
ReplyDeleteI find my descendants are little interested in their antecedents. If they ever are, it's here for them.
Nobody has written a complete family tree for either side of my family. I was able to look up names but it doesn't go far back at all before all we have is a name, birthday and date of death.
ReplyDeleteThat was great that you and your Mom worked on that little Genealogy project for Auntie G ---and it was also great that Auntie G gave you two a nice gift of appreciation... Sounds like you enjoyed your goodies and lunch out!!!!!! That is SUPER...
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Betsy
I'm sitting here grinning. What kind folks you all are. Your mom looks delightfully happy. :) You made a lot of people happy and I hope you kept copies for yourself.
ReplyDeleteYou have done a priceless thing for Art's family!
ReplyDeleteMakes me smile! What goes around, comes around. Your mom is a treasure. :-)
ReplyDeleteThe work may have been difficult but the joy it produced was ample payment. I can understand your Aunt wanting to pay for such a treasure and I am glad you accepted it and spent it well.
ReplyDeleteYour Mom has the greatest smile.
That's a good news story all around. Much more family tree stuff is worked on now as research is easier using the internet. Now we do not remain as one big family in a small area. We spread out all over the place. it's important to fill in the blanks.
ReplyDeleteYour mom's smile says it all!
ReplyDeleteYou mom is just so precious! Did she eat all that food sitting in front of her?
ReplyDeleteWorking on your family tree is a major undertaking. I am fortunate in that I have had help from older relatives. So nice of your mom to help others. I know I appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteYou and your mom, a great team at work and in celebrating! You brought pleasure to many.
ReplyDeleteYou have a wonderful family..so loving
ReplyDeleteNothing beats feeling appreciated...sometimes words aren't enough. Sacrifice for sacrifice...
ReplyDeleteL...w
It really is lovely to be appreciated. I know Mom enjoyed it.
DeleteHow wonderful! With all the negativity around these days it's nice to think about this project and how much pleasure it has given your family.
ReplyDeletecongratulations for an important project in preserving your family history....
ReplyDeleteArt's Auntie G is so generous but you and your mother really deserve it for being so kind to help her out with the family tree. No amount of money could be equal to the happiness you both have given her.
ReplyDeleteHow sweet of you all to help a Art's aunt, which will benefit the family for generations to come.
ReplyDeleteIt is rare that people express appreciation so nicely anymore. Just a note is exceptional.
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