Mom's long time doctor at Kaiser retired last December. If you ask me, he looked awfully young to be retiring, but it is what it is. Dr. Y's mother was from Japan and he understood a bit of Japanese so mom was comfortable with him. I always enjoyed talking to him too. He was always too embarrassed to speak any Japanese with mom so I needed to translate constantly even though I think she understands more English than she lets on (I think). I say (I think) because she often misunderstands Art and vice versa. I did ask Dr. Y if he could recommend a doctor who understood or spoke some Japanese for mom. He said he unfortunately didn't know any doctor at Kaiser that could.
Anyway, Kaiser gave us two choices of doctors to switch to. One was an Asian female doctor born in Taiwan and moved to Hawaii when she was 10 years old.
The other doctor was male and Caucasian.
I conferred with my brother and we agreed that mom would probably be more comfortable with the female, Asian doctor. True... it was rather a biased decision. I sadly confess that. And yes, mom said she’d like a woman doctor too.
However, even though we figured this female doctor wouldn't be able to speak Japanese, she would be more local looking to mom and she was a woman who might understand problems women have more.
Well...
We got informed that mom's new doctor would be the male Caucasian. That was a surprise. After a year of her not actually seeing a doctor face to face I tried to set up an appointment for mom.
However, when I called, they said we could only have a phone or video call for now.
Dr. K called the following afternoon and I put us all on the speakerphone. When I told him I was there to translate, he broke out in some rather surprising Japanese. Totally blew me away. The accent wasn't all that bad either. However, when mom said something in Japanese, he laughed and said it had been a while since he studied it, and wasn't up to speed with the language.
The funny thing is because he tried to speak the language with mom, she was comfortable to give him some information on her own in broken English.
I was astonished. He asked about problems and she mentioned an ache in her knee. Turns out he's got a background in musculoskeletal medicine.
He noticed in the records that we'd asked for the female doctor and he reassured us that he would certainly understand if we'd like to make a change and could help us with that.
Absolutely not. I told him we were sold on having him for mom's new doctor. He told us to take her in for blood tests and then he put in a request to assign a face-to-face appointment for her.
Awesome.
I'm going to bring him one of my special homemade masks. 😄