Mom is 91 and she's been in good health. Well, except for the matter of a blood pressure that needs to be kept under control. She likes keeping to her schedule. She is having breakfast every morning around 5:00 (sometimes earlier), does 20 minutes on the treadmill and then watches her news from Japan. Once that's over and she knows what's going on with American politics from the Japanese point of view she heads out the door to water all her plants and rake up leaves from the sidewalk and street. She's also trimming back all the ground cover next to the sidewalk. Everything is kept neat and tidy.
Lunch is at 11:00 on the dot. She tends to have lunch on her own since it's too early for us unless we bring in take-out. Then there's the nap at around 12:30. Dinner is at 5:00 on the dot.
If she doesn't follow this schedule, our mom-radar is pinging.
This past Friday, Art saw her coming in early from her watering while he was reading the morning newspaper. She told him she was unsteady on her feet. He called me immediately since their communication is often ...rather... interesting since he hasn't been able to pick up enough mastery of Japanese and mom has never gotten the hang of English. (Though I think she knows more than she lets on.)
Mom told me that she wasn't dizzy. She didn't have a headache. There was no numbness anywhere. Her face wasn't droopy and she was perfectly lucid. However, she felt she couldn't balance properly to walk and was afraid of falling.
This alarmed both Art and me. I sent off an email to her doctor and didn't hear back right away. Meanwhile mom took a two hour morning nap which she never does. Art and I worriedly paced around the room. We checked on her constantly to make sure she was breathing properly and she seemed fine.
We decided to go and pick up a quick take-out lunch so she'd have something to enjoy. When we got home, mom was just getting up and thoroughly enjoyed the lunch treat. Her appetite was definitely not diminished. We told her to use the cane when she walks around the house.
Mom said she has not been able to get a good night's sleep lately and keeps getting up around four times to use the bathroom and has difficulty getting back to sleep.
OK, so now she went back on schedule and took her after-lunch nap. That was surprising after that long morning nap. After almost an hour and a half went by and she was still napping, I decided to call the Kaiser Advice Nurse. I told her that mom's doctor had not emailed me back. She said mom's doctor was not in today and assigned another doctor to call me back.
By the time that doctor called me, mom had gotten up and her balance was restored. I had mom walk around the carpeted family room and she was astonished that her balance had been restored. The doctor advised me to keep mom off the treadmill for a time and gave permission to give her 5 mg. of melatonin each evening.
Mom got up the following morning in great spirits. She said the melatonin did wonders and she only woke up twice but could go right back to sleep.
What a relief! Art and I were on edge all day. I don't think our mental health can take a lot more of all this stress.
And mom? She's cheerful as ever.