Monday, January 20, 2020

Robocalls Aggravation!

A few nights ago, we were startled by a jarring ringing from our landline at about 5:00. It turned out to be a robocall claiming it was originating from the Social Security Office. That was really aggravating and made it hard to get back to sleep.

The following morning we got an even earlier phone call at 4:15 which Art picked up and just hung up again.


My brother who lives in Honolulu says his aggravating robocalls claimed there was a problem with his credit rating and he needed to press #1 to clear it. He said it shook him up because he thought we were calling him about our mom.

I told him we were taking our phone off the hook at night. He said he needed to keep his landline operating in case we had to call him about an emergency with mom. I told him I would just call his cellphone. He said his cell phone was on the "Do Not Disturb" mode at night. Hmmm... So was mine! I decided to look online for a way to solve this problem.

I got this from the New York Times website about when you want to be disturbed written by 
She gives the following directions on how to do this with an Apple cellphone.
"The Do Not Disturb feature, found in slightly different variations on Android and iOS devices, mutes calls, notifications and alerts so you can have some peace — but you can adjust the settings to let calls from certain people through the temporary wall of silence. You just need to make sure the people you want to hear from at any hour are on your list of favorite contacts."
"On an iOS device, go to the home screen, open the Settings app and select Do Not Disturb. On the Do Not Disturb screen, scroll down to the Phone area, tap Allow Calls From and select Favorites. If you haven’t designated any favored contacts, open the person’s entry in the Contacts app and tap Add to Favorites. Back on the Do Not Disturb settings screen, you can also tap on the Repeated Calls button to allow a second call from the same person within three minutes.
In later versions of the iOS software, you can let specified numbers through when Do Not Disturb is enabled, even if those contacts are not on your Favorites list. Just open the contact card, tap the Edit button in the upper-right corner, select Ringtone and turn on the button next to Emergency Bypass. Tap Done."
 This is what you do with an Android phone:
"The Android settings vary by version and device, but you can usually get to the Do Not Disturb controls by swiping down from the top of the screen to the Quick Settings box. Tap the Do Not Disturb icon, and then tap More Settings. Select the Priority Only Allows option, and on the next screen tap Calls.
Here, you can choose to allow calls from the people you have “starred” in the Contacts app, like family and close friends. (To add a star to a contact, just open the person’s card in the Contacts app and tap the star icon on the top-right side of the screen.) The Priority settings screen also gives you the option to allow a call to go through if the same person calls twice within 15 minutes."
OK... Now I'm all set. My cell phone will remain silent at night unless a "Favorite" is calling and I can take my landline off the hook.

I tried to call Hawaiiantel (phone company) last night, but there was a 1 hour 40 minute wait. Sheesh!

Here's hoping I get enough sleep tonight.

22 comments:

  1. Gosh I get annoyed at the 6pm calls - ones at 5am would definitely not be welcome in our house.

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  2. Oh those robocalls! I have been getting a few early morning ones and it is just outrageous that they get by without following any rules. I believe that there must be politicians and tech companies getting payoffs to keep the robocall problems from being solved without costing the public a fortune. My little cheap, for emergencies, cell phone doesn't have the ability to block calls I don't want.

    Our landline receives many robocalls each day. The ones that come in at odd early morning hours are really worrisome for me. My Dad is 91 and is in poor health at this time and my son is in the military, so those robocalls wake me up with my heart beating a mile a minute thinking that some emergency has happened. We keep a landline so that if some health emergency that caused me or my husband to not be able to tell 911 our address 911 can track my number. With cell phones they can only locate to the nearest cell tower. I called the police department on their non 911 line to find out about it, and that is what they said. I try to leave the landline on, but sometimes since my knee surgery, I am not sleeping regular hours, and I just have to unplug the phone to get some rest, and a lot of times I can't sleep then because I worry about missing a call about my Dad.

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  3. I block any calls that are not in my contact list. If they are legit calls, they will leave a message. Most don't so they turn out to be scam calls.

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  4. It is a shame that we are reduced to doing these measures but we should be grateful we have the choice.

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  5. frustrating topic...hubby and I have a code if I'm gone somewhere with my cell phone and need to reach him on our land phone at home for some reason-he never answers the phone at home, I will ring twice and hangup then call back-it works. I don't answer calls at home if I don't recognize the number and check for messages later. Amazing how many junk calls you get-beyond frustrating.

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  6. Hello!
    This is not a robo comment. Just a friendly HI. Found your blog on another I follow. :)

    I have experienced some of the same calls. Plus irritating blog comments.
    Retired teacher and mostly I blog some nonsense poems.

    Merry Mae

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  7. We bought a device which blocks most robo calls. If you can afford the cost of about $90, it's worth it. It works wonderfully for us. Callers who pretend to be local numbers get through sometimes, but those international crooks are generally blocked. Our landline rarely rings any more. You have to have caller ID for the gadget to work, though. It has 5000 preloaded known scam numbers and allows you to block another 1500 with the push of a button. It's sold on line at Amazon and other places. It's the CPR V5000 Call Blocker. My sister got one first and loves it, so we got one a few years ago and we love ours, also. Good luck with your cell phone fix. If it doesn't work well for you, you might investigate this call blocker device. Ours came from QVC or HSN, home shopping networks before they became available other places.

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    1. Thank you so much, Peg. This is really wonderful information!

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  8. This is super helpful! I have changed my phone!! YAY! I get so many robo calls I have been shutting off my phone at night but it is always in the back of my mind that I wont get the call if there is an emergency. FIXED - thank yoU!

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  9. I've been using the Do Not Disturb app for a long time now, and I have allowed favorites to call, but they don't, fortunately. Thanks for all the great advice, Kay! :-)

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  10. Very good to learn, thank you! Our landline is located in a room dedicated to business/crafts so I don't hear it ring at all hours. 90% of the time it receives spam robo calls and/or calls claiming that I won a million dollars from someone in India. 10% of the time it is from people that I know who also know my cell number so I am thinking to discontinue having a landline.

    Back in 1992, when Hurricane Iniki hit Kauai, cells phones did not work and land lines did. However, we are in the next few generations away from that time and almost everyone has cell phones and fewer landlines. What to do? I am still thinking about it.

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  11. I discovered after receiving the same robo call from a DC number for months and never picking it up, that our landline has a blocking feature. Now that robo call rings once only. Why do they still call? We have never answered.

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  12. These Robo calls are really annoying. I, too, received an early morning call with a young-woman-sounding voice claiming to be a SS Agent which I had answered, but then cut her off by hanging up. Normally I allow all calls to go my land-line on my answering machine, then simply erase them after listening to just enough of each to determine its what I consider spam. I can screen callers on my portable phones so recognize many of the sales, solicitors, scammers, and the robo pitchers area codes, or city from which they call and other clues so know not to answer. Fortunately I don’t yet consider a smart phone as cost effective or a need for other reasons so continue to use a cell phone. I’ve given this cell number to only to a few select people, don’t provide it to others including medical so only calls that come there are an occasional random one I don’t answer and delete their voice mails, so have pretty well eliminated most calls from all sources. They simply aren’t going to get through to me. I’ve had all the scam calls coming down the pike and some more than once but occasionally they keep calling.

    I read recently about a guy who gets info from some of these calls, submits it in lawsuit, I think, and is making money from doing so since robo call against the law. Maybe if everyone did that the calls would cease.

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  13. I rarely get bothered by those.

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  14. We don't get robo calls at night fortunately, or at least so far.

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  15. The timing of your post is perfect! We've given up the landline with our move, and I started keeping my phone in the bedroom. Based on your excellent advice I changed my Do Not Disturb settings.

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  16. I have no landline, and changed my cell phone.

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  17. We had major problems until a few weeks ago when some new regulations went into effecr.

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  18. I got ones at 4am,These Robo calls are really annoying. Thanks for your advice!

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  19. Lots of good info! I'll have to have my kids put those changes in my cell phone. I do get frequent calls on my cell. If it's not someone I know, I just let it leave a message. Most don't leave any message. (My friends are in my phone, and if they're at a weird phone (someone else's, the hospital,) they leave a message. Otherwise, the unknown call numbers get blocked as I choose individually.
    With my hearing aids out, and my CPAP mask on, I hear NOTHING, not even an alarm clock to wake me up!

    Gave up my land line years ago. My elderly neighbors knew if they had an emergency or a tornado was coming, they could bang on my garage door to wake me because it was right under my bed. They only did that for one of their medical concerns.
    A cell phone's ring has never woken me up, so it's pretty useless for an emergency call anyway.
    I now have a "Sonic Bomb" brand of alarm clock to wake me up. Cost about $40, it has a "hockey puck" shaker device that fits under the mattress. The "alarm" is a BIG vibrating feature, that feels like a jack hammer. It really does wake me with the first pulse. I don't even use it's louder sound feature.

    My current neighbors and kids know to wake me by banging on my bedroom window, or to send the police to do so. So far, life and sleep has been okay.
    For hard-of-hearing folks, I'm sure there's a "shaker" type of phone, but not sure I'd ever get it.
    Hope you can find peaceful sleep in Hawaii. It's a bummer that lots of mainlanders forget the time difference anyway and wake up Hawaiians too early.
    Linda in Kansas

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  20. What an interesting post. We tend to get phone calls at the dinner hour.
    My kids just don't answer the phone during dinner. They have VOIP. These idiots calling, though. I used to feel badly for them.

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  21. Robocalls make me nervous sometimes.

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