Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Letter to the Editor

As I sift through photos and memories, I came across this Letter to the Editor I wrote that was printed on December 2, 2006 in the Chicago Tribune. They titled it The best greeting.

In response to the many letters concerning stores changing their holiday greetings this year I’d like to add my perspective.  

I am a retired 1st grade teacher who worked hard at including all holidays in December. I preferred introducing my students to Christmas, Hanukkah, Diwali and Kwanzaa, and most important, to respect each celebration. I was glad when stores switched to Happy Holidays because I felt it was inclusive to everyone.  

A Holiday Committee was formed at our school a long time ago to decide how we should handle the placement of Christmas Trees, Santa Claus and other Christmas decorations. I was surprised when several Christian teachers felt that Christmas Trees and Santa Claus were secular and therefore could be allowed placement in the halls and classrooms for enjoyment by children of all religions.  One teacher was surprised when I asked how Santa Claus could be entirely secular if another name he goes by is St. Nicholas.   

I think that much of the problems with the world today occur when people are so ethnocentric that they are unable to see the point of view of those around them. Lately, I’m feeling that many people in this country are not even trying anymore. 

If you could have seen the bright smiles on the faces of the children whose religious holidays were also acknowledged in the classroom, you would understand why I am saddened by those who are insisting that holiday salutations need to be Merry Christmas.  

In fond remembrance of the December Holidays of Lights unit that I hope is still being taught in our district, I’d like to wish everyone a Happy Holiday!

You know what? I think all this is still relevant today. We need to come together, appreciate and be kind to each other.

21 comments:

  1. Amen Kay. Wonderful piece and glad they published it. I remember once when I worked at the Florida Turnpike after retirement, we were asked not to say Merry Christmas. I didn't but some insisted. I had a patron pull up to my window when exiting and wished me "Happy Hanukkah." I said, "Thank you but I am not Jewish." He then said, "Now you know how I feel." He had been wished Merry Christmas when he got on the turnpike and stewed about it for 60 miles. Merry Christmas is a great greeting for family or friends of the same faith but not strangers.

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  2. Excellent point of view from a teacher! My favorite year in a generic Sunday School as a child was when we visited other religions and some of their holidays. Learning that we're not the only ones around (whatever your religion may be,) is a bit humbling. Linda in Kansas

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  3. December and January are full of holidays so Happy Holidays is very inclusive. (which for some people is a bad word) Some Xmas fanatics act like they're not allowed to celebrate it unless EVERYONE does. That's not the way the world works. Excellent letter and sentiments!

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  4. So true. It also applies to our political and social beliefs. Yesterday I saw a nice sports car on the road and it had a F--- Bfh (?) with Trump 2024 on a poster board in the back window. The license plate was FCK B.. and I thought it was so rude of them to display such hate and vileness. So I started getting quite angry and wish someone would pull him out of the car and destroy his signs but then I had to calm myself and forgive and let go. I sure hope he can get over his hatred and forgive and let go, too. I felt very sorry for that man.

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    1. Sorry for this random comment - I guess I was more upset than I thought and felt I had to share it. Your message is beautiful.

      Happy Holidays!

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    2. I know how you feel. It's really scary what his cult followers are up to.

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  5. Dear Kay and friends, worry no more & rejoice! You'll be happy to know our TRUE president made "Merry Christmas" the law of the land! Okay, just a little 'Holiday Humor'--personally I'd be happy to wish everyone a Happy Festivus :^)

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  6. happy holidays certainly solves many problems then learning about the other holidays

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  7. Yes, yes and yes. YOu are so brave and also a breath of fresh air.

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  8. Many people still have closed minds about what should be done. You did the right thing by trying to get kids to be open minded.

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  9. That was a great letter. You should send it to the NY Times!

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  10. When we were out at Christmas shops today, I left by saying Merry Christmas at the first one and got no response. than I switched to Happy Holidays for the next too and got a repeated response. I'm good with Happy Holidays when I don't know the people I'm addressing. I too worked at trying to be inclusive when I was teaching. It was a bit of a shock to some of my white young kids to realize that not everyone celebrates Christmas.

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  11. As I sit here quaffing my birthday ale and enjoying the lack of rainfall for now, I just read and loved your letter, Kay. There are so many people who don't think we should be an inclusive country, and I worry for the future. But for now, I too wish you and all my friends Happy Holidays! And lots and lots of love to go along with it all. :-)

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  12. I loved teaching at this time of year. We all shared our special celebrations. For the kids with single parents, pizza on Christmas Eve. We had children of all faiths and it was beautiful as we shared ours.

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  13. A local guy posted on FB that he will say Merry Christmas. He's not a bad guy. I don't think he has thought it through.

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  14. Many Happy December wishes.

    All the best Jan

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