Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Keeping In Touch Long Distance

When we moved to Chicago in 1974, I wrote letters to my parents and rarely called them because it was just too expensive. Friends from Hawaii and I also kept in touch through hard copy letters. I kept a lot of them. 

You never get letters now. 😂 We're also constantly in touch with friends right here in Hawaii and the mainland and definitely our kids daily by text messages. The world has really changed.

On Easter Sunday our daughter scheduled a Google Video meeting for us all.

Our granddaughter, KC is now at the University of Illinois in Champaign. Our daughter and husband live in Chicagoland and our son and his family live and work in Africa now.


It's mind boggling when you think about it. Here we all are in Chicagoland, Champaign, Africa and Hawaii seeing and talking to each other.

Since Tiffany, our son-in-law and Keola all went to the University of Illinois, they were all watching the NCAA semi-final basketball game pitting Illinois vs. University of Connecticut with bated, hopeful breath.


Tiffany said she'd heard someone had put up a sign on the Alma Mater and wanted to see it so KC actually walked there, taking us with her.

She texted this photo during our video call.



I remember that statue from when we took photos in front of it when Keola graduated from the U of I in 2000. Tiffany had graduated 3 years before.

Sadly...
The whole family is quite disappointed that Illinois lost that game 62/71 this past Saturday. 😩

However, the University of Michigan won their game in the Final Four against the University of Arizona 91/73.

If Illinois had won their game, it would have been difficult for my grandsons to know who to root for since our daughter-in-law, Sarah is a University of Michigan alumni.


And as you can see, our grandsons are quite aware of it.

We're going to visit our granddaughter at the U of I campus this fall. I can see we're going to have to look for University of Illinois t-shirts for the grandsons so they can know where their father's loyalty lies.

POSTSCRIPT: 
Oh wow.... I just heard that Michigan has won the final game against UConn and are now the NCAA National Champions for 2026.

I know Sarah is overjoyed. I know my son, daughter, son-in-law and granddaughter are happy for her. I think.

18 comments:

  1. Go Michigan. Since we vied on the Michigan border, I have a bit of a soft spot for those universities.

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  2. I don't follow sports but I do understand the joy of it! So nice that you all can meet up on a Google meeting and chat! We used to do that once in a while with my older son.

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  3. I remember having to book overseas telephone calls! It's so much easier to keep in contact now, and for that, I'm sure we're all grateful.

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  4. Although we were beyond letters by that point, when I was in college, I had a scheduled time to walk down to the end of the floor hall and use the one phone to call my parents once a week until they finally got phones in every room. Now like you, we can do video calls anywhere in the world at any time.

    Although I don't watch sports, I do hear about it now and then so I wasn't rooting for Illinois since they had beaten out Iowa the round before.

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  5. I love University tee-shirts and have several sweatshirts and tees from my alma mater. (U of Washington) The communication has certainly gotten better. How do you deal with the time change in Africa though?

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  6. Oldest Son went to University of Illinois, so we were excited the basketball team made it so far into the tournament. It's hard when the members of a couple are rooting for different teams.

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  7. Yay for Michigan! How time flies I remember when KC was a baby, must be captured on your blog too.-Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

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  8. Isn't technology the best! What a joyous way to spend the day, hanging out, watching the game, and comparing "notes," even taking a walk, and everyone in their own place! Wow. Great memories, too, of times past. Having watched your granddaughter grow up here on your blog, seeing and hearing about her current status just blows me away! It has all happened in a blink of the eye. I know I feel that way about our grandchildren.

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  9. I recall when I went off to college there was one phone in the hall. If I called home, I did it on Sunday and called collect. Times have surely changed. Today children’s lives are not nearly as safe. Dangerous world. I don’t think my dorm room had a lock. 12 girls shared a huge place on an upper floor. No lock on the door. Nothing ever happened.

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  10. Allegiances get complicated.

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  11. Sports are a fun way to mix with family, nearby or at a distance. I didn't follow the NCAA tournaments, but I would have if I had a connection to a team.

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  12. During covid my oldest daughter set up family zooms so we could be together. I remember everyone at their Easter table with their dinners. It was so much fun. Whatever the next occasion was, we did the same and the older grandkids had us load a game they made on our phones. We could see the quiz on the zoom and everyone would text the answers. The most fun was making up player names to confuse each other. I am sure your Internet Dinner was a great success, too. How fortunate are we to have technology to keep in touch instantly!!

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  13. So glad to hear that you were able to be together with family through Google Video at Easter. I've been wanting to do something like that with family recently, but we used to use Skype... and I think Skype is no more. I will check out Google video. And although I love text and email, I do miss writing and receiving letters. I kept them too... and occasionally go back and read them.

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  14. Our younger son was on the faculty at U of I Champaign for 3 years and we loved visiting there. The arboretum on campus has some beautiful trees, as does the campus generally. Son has moved on to another job so a Champaign visit will be unlikely for us, but I hope you have a lovely time.

    Cheers,
    Ceci

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  15. So lovely that you all can meet up on a video call and chat.

    All the best Jan

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  16. I'm quite grateful for facetime with my grandkids.

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  17. I am always grateful for this technology that brings us closer.

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  18. What a great idea for a meet up!

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