
Our neighbor has the most incredible dog. Understand, I am not a dog person. I’m not a cat person either. I’m just not completely at ease with animals except at a distance unlike my husband who had three dogs one at a time when he was growing up. They were all named Finnegan; Finnegan #1, Finnegan #2 and Finnegan #3. I guess his family felt that when you had a good thing, you may as well stick to it. Anyway, he loves all dogs and they love him. I love to stand back and watch.
The hosts of the party have a dog named Riley who is quite scary looking. (OK, I realize this photo does not do him justice.) When we first saw him he reminded us of a wolf. His face is fearsome enough to scare any burglar. And yet, if you look into his eyes you’d see the sweetest, most loving of hearts. At the party last night our granddaughter went over to Riley for a closer view. She’s very gentle with animals and other children even though she’s only 16 months old. When she neared him, I was surprised to see Riley cower and turn his head so that he wouldn’t have to look at her. Whenever KC came near, Riley would leave the room. At one point our neighbor gave KC a dog biscuit to give Riley. KC thought it was hers to eat but was not upset when Ed took it from her to demonstrate how to give it to Riley. A moment later, I saw Riley sitting there looking rather disconsolate with so many people roaming around his home. I had to walk over and pat him and murmur some encouraging words just as you would to a first day kindergartener. His wolfish eyes looked directly into mine and held them. I could actually clearly see kindness and friendship being communicated. It moved me as no other animal has. Like all my neighbors, I wish I had spent more time with him through the years.
The minute I saw the photo of Riley, it was his beautiful, gentle eyes that captured me. I'm sure having a group of people in "his" house was unsettling to him at first.
ReplyDeleteI like your story and your empathy expressed for Riley.
ReplyDeleteinteresting story, i'm not an animal person either. can't say i've ever looked a dog or cat in the eyes. how do you relate to your husband's dogs?
ReplyDeleteI can't get past laughing about Finnegan-- By the way,, what was your son's name??? ;) Glad you were able to see beyond the wolf and into the eyes/soul of the dog-- that is,, if dogs have souls-- but that's another blog!!
ReplyDeleteOoops...thanks, Lin for letting me clarify what I wrote. I just edited this post. My husband had the dogs one at a time when he was growing up. They inherited the first Finnegan from a nurse who was leaving town. The 2nd Finnegan was found abandoned in the sugar cane fields. The 3rd was given to them.
ReplyDeleteSusan, my son's name is Jonathan.
Oh Kay...I have never had a dog, but helped care for a neighbor's aging golden retriever. His gentle spirit erased all my fears of dogs...
ReplyDeleteLovely post. I liked your remark: ``I could actually clearly see kindness and friendship being communicated''.
ReplyDeleteOh, he is a beauty....best wishes for the move and thanks so much for the award, it was a great b'day gift :-)
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this post very much. Dogs (I'm a through and through dog person.) communicate so much love. They desire connection. I'm glad you had this experience.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post, Musings. How sweet that you thought nothing of going over and patting Riley, though you're usually not comfortable with dogs.
ReplyDeleteWe've had a dog for five years now...or he's had us. They do desire contact, they very much want to be part of the family. They communicate clearly (Cesar on "The Dog Whisperer" has really got it right). And they are individuals, each one unique. I had no idea of this before we started, but I'm sure in love with our "little love" now.
I love dogs and I thought this was a beautiful piece of writing. Heartfelt and honest, and how amazing to look into a dog's eyes and ponder about getting to know your neighbours better. Animals are so wise. They know far more than they let on, or than we ourselves know sometimes. I do believe that. You can tell by the eyes- some dogs are so gentle and loving.
ReplyDeleteThis was so heartwarming.
Nice story. Glad you let KC approach the dog.
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