My son, Jon served as a Peace Corps volunteer in Mali, West Africa in 2002. Our lives centered on waiting for each of his letters for the 27 months that he lived in a small, isolated, rural village called Koro Bada.
Jon knows my aversion to spiders and wrote the following for me:
…Oh yeah, mom I promised that I would write about the spiders. Cekoroba yayoroba (spelling?) is a lean spider about 3 inches long with large stiff front legs. Cekoroba is a respectful term used for elderly men, it literally means stiff or set in their ways. The front legs give them an ungraceful walk which doesn’t enable them to go fast. The cekoroba on the other hand is all about speed and deception.
For about 3 nights when it was raining I had to sleep inside. For some reason they were particularly active that day. I found one running across my wall so I got out my field lamp and fly swatter and we fought back and forth for half an hour.
Once I went to whack him while he was on the wall and he jumped a good 2 feet off the wall and scared the shit out of me. Other times he chased me or hid under the bed/sofa making darting attacks.
Finally after expending much of my energy, I got him with the fly swatter and smacked him ruthlessly. I was relieved and began to sweep him towards the door. That crazy spider was playing dead, jumped up and ran under a chair. I traded the fly swatter (key word “fly”) for a good stick and commenced pummeling the cekoroba till he was pretty much pulp. The others heard about this and continued to torture me for the rest of the night.
One incident; while lying on the bed I looked over at the wall and saw a medium sized cekoroba on the wall. I rolled off my bed to grab my lantern and right next to the lantern was another one waiting to ambush me. Yes, diversionary tactics and predation. They are smart, fast and not the least bit dangerous. Or maybe that’s what they want you to think…"
I find it even funnier that his tale of the spiders which I really dislike should be one of my favorites that we received from him. When I checked on line, I found that a lot of Peace Corps volunteers have written about the wily cekoroba.

funny spider story...or not! Glad they weren't poisonous or anything.
ReplyDeleteI had something similar happen when I was camping once. My spider was not this big though. I caught mine and let him go.
ReplyDeleteWell told scary story turned funny. Your son has a good grip on the telling of a tale. (Much like his mother.)
ReplyDeleteI am a friend of spiders, so I guess I wouldn't have killed it, but they would have scared me, too, I suspect. Smart little guys! Good post, great letter from your son, Kay. I can see why you waited for those...
ReplyDeleteSigh... I wish I could be like you, DJan. If I could sky dive, walk a jillion miles and not be afraid of spiders, I'd have it made.
Deletefunny but scary-perfect preparation for HALLOWEEN!!! lol...
ReplyDeleteOoooo, I will now have nightmares from reading Jon's lovely description. Sounds like it would be easier to have some bait and catch them in a cage. DrumMajor
ReplyDeleteA cage of spiders. Yuuuuuck......
DeleteI agree wlith Granny Annie....like mother like son lol
ReplyDeleteI'm always impressed with the way you tell your stories and see you had a great influence on your children with respect to the written word (among many other positive attributes.) Would not be surprised to hear if they keep journals too.
L. from W.
Awww... Thank you, L. And yes, they do keep journals. :-)
DeleteEEEK!!! I hate spiders, no matter how small. Thank goodness, they are rare in my house.
ReplyDeleteI'm always fascinated by the war we wage with spiders, especially since most of them are quite harmless. Having small children cured me of my fear of spiders since I didn't want them to be scared. Now I'm generally okay.
ReplyDeleteLogically, I KNOW I shouldn't be afraid of spiders. It's irrational, but sadly...I can't seem to help it.
DeleteMan against the wily spider. I loved this!
ReplyDeleteI wonder if you ever read E. B. White's "Charlotte's Web" to your students. I heard on Public Radio recently that he could never read the book without crying at the death of the spider. How do you feel about Spider Man? It seems you have a case of---ARACHNOPHOBIA!
ReplyDeleteI have read Charlotte's Web although not to my first graders. It's a beautiful book and I loved Charlotte. However it didn't do anything for my arachnophobia. I might not like Spiderman if he had 8 legs.
Deletenow THAT could make me RUN! LOL
ReplyDeleteAloha from Honolulu
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You must have been much relieved when you got to the line "not the least bit dangerous". I know I was.
ReplyDeleteThat was a great story. I hate spiders too.
ReplyDeleteOi veh, Jon had to wait to the end to say they were not poisonous?? Such a brave boy. I would never have been able to sleep in such a hut.
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