Friday, January 24, 2020

Our 47th Wedding Anniversary

I remember being married for 5 years and thinking that Art's sister having been married 10 years was such a long time.

It's rather amazing for me to think that we're nearing our 50th wedding anniversary. Where have the years gone?

We got married in January, 1973, less than a year and a half after we met. This top photo was taken the morning of our wedding.

Art was always pretty confident about us. In fact, he proposed on January 1st which was about 4 months after we met.

When I called to tell mom the following day that I would be getting married she asked, "What? To who?"

She was ecstatic and said she was hoping I would end up with him, but didn't want to put any pressure on me for fear I'd do the opposite.

As the years passed I realize how very lucky I've been. Whenever there was a problem, he was the one who strategized a solution. When I was afraid, he was the one to encourage me to face my fears.

And when mom asked us to come home to Hawaii to be with her after my father passed away, Art was the one who took the steps to make it all possible.

After all these years, you can see why mom was so happy about Art and I getting married because he's certainly come through for her in her later years.

We celebrated our wedding anniversary with mom at a Korean restaurant and marveled at all that has happened in our decades together.

Art says he's coming up with plans for what we'll do on our 50th.

An adventure he says...

Hoo boy!

35 comments:

  1. Congratulations! You are one of the success stories.

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  2. You are such a lovely couple! Well done!
    I was married the first time in 1976. This time, 2002, it took!

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  3. You are very fortunate to have found such a fine man and he is lucky to have found you. You seem like the perfect couple. Bob and I had been married 57 years when he died ten years ago.

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  4. Congratulations Kay, wow 47 years! Very nice pics of you & Art then, and now--your mom's silent wish for you two made me smile (she was worried you'd do the exact opposite), I used to hear that from my own mom as well. :) I'm looking forward to more Kay & Art adventures in the years ahead.

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  5. Beautiful touching post Kay you and Art are blessed to have each other. Happy 47th!

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  6. Happy Anniversary. Ours is in March #46.

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  7. you all are very lucky! what a wonderful life to spend with someone who loves you so much!

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  8. You are blessed. Happy Anniversary and enjoy the adventure.

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  9. Congratulations! It will be interesting to hear what Art's got up his sleeve for tate next milestone anniversary.

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  10. Happy Anniversary!
    What a great commitment!

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  11. Happy anniversary. What a wonderful journey you two are having.

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  12. Kay, Elvis Presleys Aloha from Hawaii was seen by over a billion people on January 14th 1973 almost at exactly the same time that you were married, watching it again could bring back some great memories.

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    1. Hi Steve! So wonderful to hear from you again. Oh gosh! Was that the year? I guess it was an eventful year for sure.

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  13. That is a darling picture. You and your Mom really picked a winner but Art got a real deal also. Congrats of 47 years.

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  14. Beautiful post. Congratulations and wishing you many more loving years.
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  15. Your good sense and judgement was right on in this one. Happy anniversary.

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  16. Congratulations on 47 wonderful years together.
    That 50th should be some celebration if Art is already making plans!

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    1. Looking forward to seeing you both when you celebrate your 50th.

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  17. Congratulations to you and Art! It takes two to make a wonderful marriage.

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  18. It's funny how the first years always seem the longest.

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  19. Happy Anniversary to You & Art! Congratulations on your 47 Blessed years together. That is an awesome milestone. I wish you many more Happy years together!

    There is a special Greeting for you on my Blog.

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  20. I'm so happy for you all. I sure hope I make it to your 50th, which will be my 81st year! :-)

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  21. Your Art is quite a guy, for sure. But then of course he would be there for you because you are such a loving and caring person yourself. Congratulations of 47 years together.

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  22. Congrats! You two are wonderful partners for each other. (Maybe Art's going to take you to all 50 states for your 50th..) Linda in Kansas

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    1. Gosh! We’ve already been to a number of them. I should take a count.

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  23. Sincere and heartfelt congratulations! My husband and I married 9-30-1972, so quite close to your wedding. But sadly, Paul died in 2007. The day after his funeral was our 35th anniversary. Not what we had planned, but life often is not. But I will always be so so grateful for our years together....Paul's Mom lived to be 102! And his oldest sister is now 93.

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  24. Tho it’s late, I wish you a happy 47th anniversary! How fortunate you are to have the love you have shared for all those years. Knowing Art’s planning, I bet that 50th anniversary adventure will be something pretty wonderful!

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  25. Many congratulations and happy wishes for your wedding anniversary.
    Lovely post and photographs.

    All the best Jan

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  26. You and I are both lucky in love! Congratulations 🎉 and many many more 🎈

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