Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Communication in the Modern Age

My mother and two of her sisters, Grace and Dorothy live in Hawaii.  They have a brother in Tokyo and another sister, Atchan in Sendai The four sisters are very close and keep in constant contact with each other and over their brother.  In Hawaii, the sisters have their phone calls.  With the sister in Sendai, my mother loves writing letters.   When a letter arrives from the aunt in Sendai, mom puts everything down to read it.  Then she calls her two sisters and reads it to them.

circa 1938  Four sisters with their mother in Japan

I suggested they do a Skype video call with my Auntie Atchan, but Auntie Atchan was leery of using the computer.  When I e-mailed my cousins in Japan they said only my cousin, Ricky who works in China had enough computer knowledge to set everything up.

This is rather funny because we saw our then 4 year old granddaughter, KC answering a Skype call on her own last year. We were surprised when she pressed the right buttons on her own to talk to her friend who had moved to Canada as though it was the most normal thing in the world for a child to do.

I was hoping to do a video call when the three sisters would be together at our house for a Cousins Party this month.

When one of my other cousins in Japan said that their mother preferred writing letters and receiving them, I gave up on the computer idea.  I didn't want to pressure my aunt into doing something she didn't want to do.

Imagine my surprise when Auntie Atchan wrote to mom saying that cousin, Ricky was going to set everything up for the video call using Skype when he returned to Japan for a vacation.  I e-mailed Ricky in China and he gave me the Skype addresses he set up for  himself and for his mother.

This coming Saturday, Ricky and I will test it all to make sure things will work on the following Saturday.  Then when we have the cousins party, we'll do this incredible thing of having the four sisters together again using modern technology, if nothing fails...

Needless to say, I'm on pins and needles.

24 comments:

  1. Well my goodness this is exciting news and definitely will require follow-up. Now I'm on pins and needles too.

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  2. The difference in our methods of communication within the span of a single lifetime is beyond amazing. And when you're born with a computer in your hand and video calls are the norm, those of us born when the telephone was the major instant communication device, can only marvel at those brilliant children of ours!

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    1. I was just talking to my 5 year old granddaughter as she gave me instructions on Face Time with the cellphone. "Press the button on the right, Grandma," she instructed. "Now press the button with the camera so I can see the other side." I heard my son-in-law laughing and saying, "Tell Grandma you're her tech support."

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  3. you can teach an old dog new tricks-once they adjust to the idea...lol!

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  4. How exciting!! I hope all goes well and they enjoy their new means of communication!!!

    Lila loves using my ipad....it amazes me. Not yet 3 and is so good at it.

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  5. The 1938 picture is priceless. I hope it all works perfectly (I'm sure it will) and that the sisters have a wonderful cyber-reunion.

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  6. How wonderful it will be for them if it all works out. I think that this is an instance where modern technology can be a eal boom. Though I fear that I haven't yet got round to using Skype or FaceTime (the mac equivalent).

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  7. wow that will be quite something when everyone gets together on Skype!

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  8. This almost has the anticipation of a space launch!! Hope no "Houston" lol

    L. from W.

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    1. No kidding!!! I'm feeling nervous about it too.

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  9. Great! Looking at the photo, I can't believe KC can perch on the dining chair like that, with her toes at the very edge of the chair. I tried Skype a couple of times with my grandkids, but found they couldn't sit still in front of the computer long enough to get any satisfaction from it. But I can imagine how excited your mom and her sisters will be to see each other that way.

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    1. I know. Scared me when I saw it. I made her sit down on a booster chair though. KC is now preferring Face Time on the cellphone because she can just take us around with her.

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  10. This is going to be wonderful.

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  11. Will be waiting eagerly for the day when the four sisters will be together..do update it without fail..all the best..

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  12. Henry Hank Chapin Insist on it! They will be so happy. This antitech stuff gets old (Ha!). I tried and tried to get my father to use a microwave oven--a microwave oven yet, now one of our most common appliances! Not much luck. "Look, Dad," I said, "ONE minute for one piece of bacon, TWO minutes for two pieces of bacon, THREE minutes for three pieces of bacon" and so on. He wasn't impressed.

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    1. My mother would be lost without the microwave now. :-)

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  13. Wonderful. Good wishes for it all to work out perfectly.

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  14. How exciting Kay! I think your Aunt Atchan will like it if she doesn't have to know how to access it. The event might be the encouragement she needs to consider it for the future. Is there a way to record or save the interaction? Can it be done three-way so the baby brother can participate? A "live" recorded event would be a wonderful viewing for future generations. Amazing. Have fun. DrumMajor

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    1. With the Skype video call, you can only do 2 points. If you have a three way conference, it's only voice. I plan to take a few photos and then leave to let them have a private conversation. I think it would be too chaotic to have all the cousins around watching them talk. The aunts might also be self conscious if they saw me video taping them. We'll see...

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  15. Face Time on the cell phone? Oh no, I'm already way behind.
    We don't Skype anymore, now that the kids are nearby, but if we wanted too we could put it on our new 55 inch TV! That would really be an up close visit!

    It's exciting to have this possible new link across the miles for you mother and her sisters. I hope it all goes well.

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  16. This post says so much about family, technical progress, aging. KC is the girl of the future. Your mom and her sisters have knowledge that is passing. . . being human is such an amazing business! Glad to read your worth while post, Kay~


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  17. I'm excited for u guys! Good luck!
    Shaka sherry

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  18. What a great idea! Wonderful that all your mum's sisters and her brother are still around! Family is so important!
    Thank you for your congratulations with the successful Epke Zonderland. It was one of the things I really enjoyed seeing. The others were also great!
    have a wonderful day, Kay!

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  19. I so love this, Kay. Our wee ones are adapting, and we are, but some of our senior loved ones fear things new. I don't know why.
    I have clients in long-term care who are learning technology!
    Cheers from Cottage Country!

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